Do you long for days gone by?

My hometown’s landmark

Over the Memorial Day weekend, I visited my family in Michigan and had a chance to connect with someone dear to me that I had not seen for 10 years. I moved from Michigan to Virginia almost 10 years ago and it was a difficult move for me; yet looking back I know why it was necessary. I am grateful that I am able to travel home about 3 times a year. With each trip, I like to visit places and see people that were a part of my daily life back then. But every now and then I still find myself wishing to move back home.

It is wonderful to remember good times and learn from difficult times. Many reflect on when life was easier and sweeter. It’s healthy to visit the past so that you can reflect on where you come from, where you’ve been, and use those memories to plot your path. But living in the past will actually stop you enjoying life.

One of my favorite Michigan treats … Blue Moon Ice Cream malt!

But what about those who live in the past and long for days gone by? I have been there and it’s not living. When we spend most of our thoughts and emotions on things that happened in the past, we are not living in the present and we cannot plan for the future. Do any of these ring true?

  • You are focused on reconnecting with friends and ex’s from your past;
  • You surf the internet to find people from your past (whether you want to connect with them or not);
  • When you connect with people from your past, your conversation primarily focuses on the past and not on the present or future;
  • You do not want to part with any objects from your past;
  • You have not been able to forgive people, thus keeping you connected to those past hurtful events;
  • You struggle to live in the present and to appreciate all that is around you right now;
  • You cannot focus on charting your path for the future.

If you relate to this list, do not feel bad. Just recognize that when you are so focused on the past, you are not living today and it will be difficult for you to see the miracles and gifts that are offered to you each day. It’s like driving a car: If you are focused just on the present you are looking through the floorboards; it you are focused just on the future you are focused 20 feet ahead of you; and if you are focused just on the past, you are looking in the review mirror. We do not drive using just one of these methods, right? You can get into a dangerous situation if you are solely focusing on one view. We look all around us for the best and safest view.

According to the Law of Attraction, your past is a world that does not exist anymore. That energy is gone. You can cherish the memories, but you cannot live them because that energy does not exist today.

Finding a balance between living the past, present and future is healthy.  This is my personal equation that I live by: 10% past/memories; 55% present and 45% future. I believe that it is important to put most of your energy on living each day to its fullest, otherwise life will pass you by if you are looking too far ahead or behind. You will miss the messages, signals and miracles that help you plot a beautiful future. But at the same point you need to set intentions and goals for the future, otherwise your life will collapse around you without direction. And bring the sweet memories and bitter lessons from the past to help you be your best. Now that is a recipe for a sweet life.

If you are struggling with living a balanced life, my holistic approach of Law of Attraction coaching and energy techniques will help you live your best life.

All my best,

About Allie:

Allie is a unique combination of self-empowerment coach (Certified Law of Attraction Counselor and Life Coach), energy therapist (Usui Reiki Master-Teacher, Integrated Energy Therapy Master-Instructor, and Advanced Crystal Master), award-winning book author, attorney and nationally-recognized animal advocate. Whether it’s wanting more freedom, creativity, loving relationships, financial security, wellbeing, relaxation … she looks at each person and animal holistically and creates a well-being plan. She combines these methods to help people gain control of their lives and to help animals live with comfort in our hectic world. It worked for her and will work for you!  She particularly loves helping our animal companions because for those of us who have them grace our worlds, they are our soul mates.

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The power of coming together in prayer and healing

All of us woke up this morning to the news of unspeakable devastation that occurred yesterday in Moore, Oklahoma when a massive tornado swept through the community. Reports this morning tell us that 2 elementary schools took a direct hit and there are at least 50 fatalities. A horse farm also took a direct hit and there are approximately 100 horses that were killed. Many families have lost their homes and a sense of safety in this world.

For those of us who are sitting safely in our homes or offices this morning, we may suffer from guilt and helplessness in not knowing what to do. I know that as I swept up the remains of a broken figurine that my sweet and crazy kitten, Rudy, had broken this morning, I could not think of the silly trinket that had been broken when so many families are dealing with life changing events.

Since it was difficult to sleep last night (I could feel the urgency and panic from Oklahoma), I wrote an article called “The power of coming together in prayer and healing.” It explains how focused prayer, distant energy healing, and doing these in groups can amplify and truly send healing.

To gain access to the article, you need to be one of my Energy Emissaries! Don’t worry … it’s super easy to become one. Just go to my home page and in the right column at the top, you will see a box where you can sign up. You will instantly gain access to a page chock full of free information (videos, articles, posters, etc.). Your email and information will be safe with me.

So please log in to your account to access the page or sign up to gain access. This short article will explain how you are not powerless in these situations. To help the community of Moore, Oklahoma, please come together with me at 3:00pm and 9:00pm today to send our collective prayers and healing. Please share and let’s make an impact!
All my best,

About Allie:

Allie is a unique combination of self-empowerment coach (Certified Law of Attraction Counselor and Life Coach), energy therapist (Certified Crystal Healer, Usui Reiki Master-Teacher, and Integrated Energy Therapy Master-Instructor), award-winnign author, attorney and nationally-recognized animal advocate. Whether it’s wanting more freedom, creativity, loving relationships, financial security, wellbeing, relaxation … she looks at each person and animal holistically and creates a well-being plan. She combines these methods to help people gain control of their lives and to help animals live with comfort in our hectic world. It worked for her and will work for you!  She particularly loves helping our animal companions because for those of us who have them grace our worlds, they are our soul mates.

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Why I love crystals so much

Hello Flower (yes, I name them!)

Whenever I mention that I am a crystal healer, I get one of two reactions: (1) people think I’ve gone woo woo, or (2) people think it’s cool and want to know more. For the people who think I’ve become a wack-a-doo, I simply remind them that I’m a licensed attorney, attorneys require evidence and proof of things, and I’ve experienced the power of what crystals can do. Case closed! LOL

But even if I were not an attorney, I would still have proof of what I have experienced with crystals (for myself and clients), such as:

  1. Achieving a sense of ease in life;
  2. Not being at the whim of outside influences;
  3. Encountering change with grace;
  4. Living life in awe and not in fear;
  5. Having balanced and stable emotions;
  6. Feeling positive;
  7. Better handling of toxic and negative people;
  8. Better sleep;
  9. Physical vitality;
  10. And my cats lay on top of crystals (and animals are drawn to healing).
Ajoite (rare crystal) travels with me!

I believe that so many different energy therapies can help you achieve some or all of these experiences. But when I began the serious study of crystals a few years ago (and loaded my home with them), the shifts were obvious. Yes, I have a ridiculous number of crystals in my home and in my healing practice. Sometime soon, I will create a videotape showing you how much I have.

A body grid to help with fear

For my clients, I include crystals in almost all healing sessions; I have crystals in my healing room and classes; I create crystal grids on clients during sessions and also environmental grids that send out healing.

I have filled my home, work space, and healing space with crystals. I have crystals under my bed (Selenite is great), between me and my computer (Black Tourmaline transmutes the negative EMFs), Rose Quartz everywhere (to help my senior kitty Lucy be kinder to my kitten Rudy). I wear crystals constantly, I travel with them, I have them in my garden to welcome the animals. And if there is a place where I cannot take a crystal, I take my crystal elixirs and spritz the area. I am never without crystals. We are bombarded with so much electrical energy and toxic human energy each day and crystals can help to keep our energy field in balance. And when our energy field is balanced, our body/mind/spirit is healthy.

Storage for my tumbled crystals (aren’t they gorgeous?)

Don’t worry … You do not need to be a crystal hoarder like I am! Just a few crystals will really help. Go to your local new age store or check out online merchants like Healingcrystals.com or Allipacha.com. See what crystals you are drawn to and it will tell you what you need to work on to balance your life. And the size matters! Crystals give off energy, and the larger the crystal the larger the energy field that it will envelop. Get yourself some crystal books (check out my recommendations on Amazon). Take a class (check out my Introduction to Vibrational Healing on June 15th or my Crystal classes coming up later this summer). Once you start to learn about crystals, you will be amazed at how much they have to offer.

My Jacob when he first arrived (broken heart grid)

And remember that crystals do not just benefit humans; pets love them too! If you want to learn more, join one of my crystal classes and prepare to be wowed by the power of crystals! And if you have a crystal story, please share!!

 

About Allie:

Allie is a unique combination of self-empowerment coach (Certified Law of Attraction Counselor and Life Coach), energy therapist (Certified Crystal Healer, Usui Reiki Master-Teacher, and Integrated Energy Therapy Master-Instructor), award-winnign author, attorney and nationally-recognized animal advocate. Whether it’s wanting more freedom, creativity, loving relationships, financial security, wellbeing, relaxation … she looks at each person and animal holistically and creates a well-being plan. She combines these methods to help people gain control of their lives and to help animals live with comfort in our hectic world. It worked for her and will work for you!  She particularly loves helping our animal companions because for those of us who have them grace our worlds, they are our soul mates.

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Life is not meant to be difficult … So decide!

Can the two of us have a serious discussion? Is your life unfolding the way that you want? If you instantly answered no, do any of these situations apply to life right now?

  • You feel like you have no control of your life and are at the mercy of outside influences.
  • You have an oppressive boss, coworkers, spouse or family members.
  • You continue to attract negative and toxic people and situations, including people who backstab or put you down.
  • You often feel physically and emotionally drained, especially at the end of the day.
  • You have received a medical diagnosis that is concerning.
  • You lack vitality and have to drag yourself out of bed each day.
  • You feel victimized by the economy and may have lost your job.
  • You work in a job that brings you no joy or sense of fulfillment.
  • You long for healthy relationships or that one special relationship.
  • You have a bleak outlook on life.
  • You have dreams but lack the confidence and motivation to make them come true.
  • You feel like your life has gone down the wrong path and you feel out of balance.
  • You no longer know what you want out of life.
  • You have lost your mojo.

If you answered yes to even one of these items, it is one yes too many. Life is not meant to be difficult. Now repeat after me …. LIFE IS NOT MEANT TO BE DIFFICULT!!!!! Shout it at the top of your lungs!

So then why are you and so many others living a difficult life? I have the answer …. and the answer is fear. It’s fear in making a decision to live the life that you want. It’s fear of the unknown and what “might” happen if you decide. It’s fear of leaving behind old and negative energy which has become a comfortable friend. It’s fear of knowing exactly how powerful and strong you will be once you decide. Fear is not your friend sweet pea. So don’t invite fear into your life.

This week’s message is about deciding. DECIDE!!!!!!! Decide that enough-is-enough, that this is YOUR life, and that you are going to live it how you want. Now this doesn’t mean that you have to abandon your job, your spouse, your kids, your pets and run away to join a traveling rock band. What it means is that you take the first step and decide that life does not have to be difficult. You find a way to make your current life the best that it can be! Or maybe you decide that you need a complete life shake up? Either way, simply decide!

So how exactly does that happen? Here are a few steps to get you started:

  1. Decide that you want to live a fulfilled life. Until you make that decision, nothing will change.
  2. Take some time for yourself (preferably each day) to sit quietly, meditate, be in nature, to slow your mind down. This may take a little practice, but keep doing it. Each time, have a conversation with your higher self (that wise inner voice) and ask “what do I need to do today?” Listen to the first idea, voice or image that comes into your mind and that is your answer. If the answer is something on your to-do list, or is a negative/unsupportive voice, that’s your ego that you need to ignore. Keep asking until you hear an uplifting/positive voice giving you direction.
  3. Then take one step towards that answer that you received.
  4. After you take the first step, your inner voice will give you the next step, and so on.
  5. Be gentle on yourself during this process. Give the process time to play out. Do not put your human time demands on when you want to be at your final destination. Remember, life is a journey, not an event.
  6. Get support from friends and family. If they are not supportive, keep your goals to yourself so that you are not derailed by their fear,
  7. Keep a Fulfilled Life Journal so that you can track your daily progress. Then on those days where you feel like you are going nowhere, go back and read the first entry and you will be amazed at the progress you have made.
  8. Make this a daily (or at least a weekly) practice. When you do this, you will notice improvement.

Most people will read these ideas and say YES! This is me, I want to change and have a better life! And then they will go through their day/week/month/year and forget about it. They will do nothing. I have a simple solution to that. Invest in yourself and let me coach and support you through this process. I have done this for others and done this for myself and it works!

So many people have the best of intentions to take control of their lives (with a new diet, a new exercise plan, yoga and meditation every morning, etc.) but they do not follow through. It’s why New Year’s resolutions fail. Having someone support you, even when you want to give up and stop, is what will make the change happen and make it stick! I won’t let you fail.

I feel so strongly about helping people live better lives, I have an AMAZING OFFER!!!!!!!! My standard coaching fees are $150 per hour-long session. For the month of May, if you sign up for at least 6 coaching sessions, the fee will drop to $100 per hour-long session. You may think that this is a lot of money for you to spend. Here’s what I say: What’s the point of making money if you do not use some of it to invest in yourself? You invest in your home, in food, in clothing, in a car, in your pets, kids, etc. … but do you ever invest in yourself? Most respected coaches charge $400 per hour and higher. I want to make this process affordable for you, and I want you to make an investment in yourself. This investment will pay off in all areas of your life.

So instead of reading this, agreeing with what I’ve said, and then going back to your difficult life, make a decision to have the life that you want. If you don’t know what life you want, I’ll help you figure that out, too! Email me and say I’ve made a decision to live my best life! All you have to do is decide!

All my best,

About Allie:

Allie is a unique combination of self-empowerment coach (Certified Law of Attraction Counselor and Life Coach), energy therapist (Certified Crystal Healer, Usui Reiki Master-Teacher, and Integrated Energy Therapy Master-Instructor), award-winnign author, attorney and nationally-recognized animal advocate. Whether it’s wanting more freedom, creativity, loving relationships, financial security, wellbeing, relaxation … she looks at each person and animal holistically and creates a well-being plan. She combines these methods to help people gain control of their lives and to help animals live with comfort in our hectic world. It worked for her and will work for you!  She particularly loves helping our animal companions because for those of us who have them grace our worlds, they are our soul mates.

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